你為什么愛你的父親？（一）

David Yu, Failure Extraordinaire
Why not?
Over the past years of my life, I’ve realized how much my dad has done for me, despite the fact that I still think he is a complete douchebag. He sent me to China, because he saw great potential in me, hoping that I’d get better education than my two, oops, make that one other sibling would get in that shithole of a country that I was born in. If it wasn’t for me living in China, I wouldn’t had been more “civilized” and intelligent than I would’ve been, it also prevented me from seeing the cruel side of humanity and keep a pure and simple mind. That was until I witnessed a store robbery and store shooting when I was brought back to that shithole.

為什么不愛呢？
在過去的幾年里，我意識到我爸爸為我做了很多事，盡管我仍然認(rèn)為他是個徹頭徹尾的混蛋。他把我送到中國，因為他在我身上看到了巨大的潛力，希望我能得到比我的兩個兄弟更好的教育，而且我的兄弟姐妹會在我出生的那個鬼地方得到更好的教育。如果不是因為我生活在中國，我不會比以前更“文明”，更聰明，這也阻止了我看到人性的殘酷一面，可以保持一個單純的頭腦。直到我被帶回那個鬼地方目睹一起商店搶劫和槍擊事件之后才改變。
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But I also saw things the other way around, he probably sent me to China because I was a burden to him and my mother. No matter, as I felt happier with my grandparents anyways, both sides, who loved me very much, and showed great care for me, though they spoiled the shit out of me. Whereas my dad exposed me to many bad things, he never helped me with my homework. But yet without him, my life could’ve been way different, probably dead in that shithole of a country. It was because he had many connections, from the local rich family to the police, and probably the government too, that my family was able to immigrate to Canada
If it wasn’t for my dad, I would not have existed. I wouldn’t be who I am today without my dad doing all the things he did not just for me, but for my family too. He also helped me “open my eyes” and learn the harsh realities of life, and be grateful the for the things I have, because we were poor af. He set an example for me, because of the things he did, I knew what consequences making certain stupid decisions would lead to. Seeing his old photo galleries of him enjoying the time of his life instead of being with his family gave me an incentive to live my life to the fullest one day, but I’d probably not neglect my family like he did.

但我也看到了另一面，他把我送到中國，可能因為我是他和我母親的負(fù)擔(dān)。也無所謂，反正我和祖父母在一起更開心，他們都很愛我，對我很關(guān)心，盡管他們把我給寵壞了。雖然我爸爸讓我接觸了很多壞東西，但他從來沒有幫助我做過家庭作業(yè)。但是沒有他，我的生活會有很大的不同，可能會死在那個鬼地方。正是因為他有很多關(guān)系，從當(dāng)?shù)氐母蝗思彝サ骄欤赡苓€有政府層面，我的家人才能夠移民到加拿大。
如果不是我爸爸，我就不會存在了。如果沒有我爸爸的努力，我不會有今天的成就，他所做的一切不僅是為了我，也是為了我的家人。他還幫助我“睜開眼睛”，了解生活的嚴(yán)酷現(xiàn)實，并學(xué)會感恩我所擁有的一切，因為我們都很窮。他為我樹立了榜樣，因為他，我知道做出某些愚蠢的決定會導(dǎo)致什么后果?？吹疆嬂壤锏乃菑堈掌?，他享受自己的生活，而不是和他的家人在一起，給了我動力，讓我活得充實，但我可能不會像他那樣忽視我的家人。

Unnati Madan, Voracious Reader, Storyteller.
My father, throughout my school and college-life, used to drop and pick me up, no matter how busy or how important the work was, he never missed this even for a single day.
He was not rich, but he made sure that we lived a luxurious life.
He always understood what we needed or wanted, and he would always get that for us.
He has always treated me and my brother equally, he never said “ No, you are a girl and you can't-do that “, instead he says “You are a girl, you can even rule the world if you want to”.
Since childhood, he narrates at least one story/poem every night to me. Stories that inspired me, groomed me. Stories about the leaders, Gods, Sikander and so on…. He never narrated ‘fairy tales’ to us, he never wanted us to get dependent on or wait for any “prince” that will come and save us from the world.
After my mother died (in 2015), My father became my mother too. He fulfilled her role as well. From taking care of us to every little thing, he did it all.
Last year I was operated for my sinuses, I was not allowed to eat anything for 12 hours before the operation and a few hours after the operation. I was not even allowed to have water after the operation for a few hours.

在大學(xué)在內(nèi)整個學(xué)校生活中，無論工作有多忙，有多重要，我的父親總是開車來接我，他從來沒有錯過一天。
他并不富裕，但他確保我們過著奢侈的生活。
他總是知道我們需要什么，想要什么，他總是會幫我們得到。
他一直平等地對待我和我的弟弟，他從來沒有說“不，你是一個女孩，你不能那樣做”，相反，他說“你是一個女孩，如果你想你甚至可以統(tǒng)治世界”。
從孩提時代起，他每天晚上至少給我講激發(fā)我靈感，培養(yǎng)我的一個故事/一首詩歌。這些故事是關(guān)于領(lǐng)袖，神，Sikander等的故事等，他從不向我們講述“童話”，他從不希望我們依賴或等待任何“王子”來拯救我們。
在我母親去世后(2015年)，他也履行了我母親的職責(zé)。從照顧我們到每一件小事，他都做到了。
去年我做了鼻竇炎手術(shù)，手術(shù)前12個小時和術(shù)后幾個小時我都不能吃東西。手術(shù)后的幾個小時，我甚至不被允許喝水。
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He stood outside the ICU and kept looking at me through the glass windows until I regain Consciousness and was taken back to my room.
When I wake up, he was sitting next to me holding my hand. I asked him whether he had lunch or not, “He said, I will have it after you”.
He even had water after me. His sugar level went down because of not eating anything, but he was so scared for me.
After I was operated, I was having this cotton pack all over my face, and there were stitches on my nose and lips. He took care of me like I was this small little girl, he cooked food for me and didn’t let me enter the kitchen for the complete month.
As we are going through the rough phase, we don’t have any maid or servant working for us anymore, he gets up early before me, and do all the household work on his own, from cleaning the utensils to cleaning home, so that I don’t have to do that. We have fought over this so many times but he never listens to me on this topic.
He is the most honest and loyal person, He never lies, never cheats (in relations or in business), never takes the side of the wrong, always take stand for the right thing…..etc.
He has saved so many lives, once he saved the life of a small kid (10-years-old) who met with an accident, his left eye came out, his head was seriously injured, while everyone was scared and shocked by the horrible site, he took that kid in his arms and immediately rushed to the hospital.The boy is half paralyzed now but is alive. His family was so thankful to my father for saving his life.
He is a selfless person, he has always lived his life for others, by helping them when they were in need, when they needed him or his money.
P.S: There are so many other things as well, which makes him different from others. I LOVE MY FATHER because of the good person he is.

他站在重癥監(jiān)護病房外，不停地透過玻璃窗看著我，直到我恢復(fù)知覺并被帶回我的房間。
當(dāng)我醒來時，他就坐在我旁邊，握著我的手。我問他有沒有吃午飯，“他說，你吃完我就吃?！?br /> 他很擔(dān)心我，因為沒吃東西，他的血糖水平下降了。
手術(shù)后，我臉上全是紗布，鼻子和嘴唇也縫了幾針。他像照顧小女孩一樣照顧我，他給我做飯，一個月都不讓我進廚房。
當(dāng)時我們正在經(jīng)歷一個艱難的階段，不再有任何女傭或傭人為我們工作，他起得比我早，然后做所有的家務(wù)，從清潔器具到打掃房間，這樣就不用我做這些了。我們?yōu)榇藸幊尺^很多次，但他從來不聽我的。
他是最誠實和忠誠的人，他從不說謊，從不在關(guān)系或生意上進行欺騙，從不站在錯誤的一邊，總是站在正確的立場上等等。
他挽救過很多生命,有一次他救了一個小男孩（10歲）的命，這小男孩遭遇了一場意外，他的頭受了重傷，左眼出來了，而所有人都被可怕的現(xiàn)場嚇壞了，他抱著那個孩子，立即送往醫(yī)院。這個男孩現(xiàn)在半癱瘓，但還活著。他的家人非常感謝我父親救了他的命。
他是一個無私的人，他總是為別人而活，在他們需要的時候，在他們需要他或他的錢的時候，都會幫助他們。
附注:還有很多其他的事情，這讓他與眾不同。我愛我的父親，因為他是一個好人。

Julia Alvarez, studied at The High School Experience
Just seeing this question makes me tear up.
My father is an amazing man. I still call him “daddy” because I never grew out of it, but he deserves that title because he has done so much for me.
Right after I was born, my father held me in his arms and called me “dolly” because I looked like a little doll that he would care for the rest of his life.
When I was a kid, I would trust him with all my secrets because he would rarely get angry with me.
When I was a tween, I would start to rebel, but my father would never hit or yell at me. He would calmly explain what is right and try to understand my side too.
When I was in my early teens, he would always support me academically. He would create practice problems for me to understand concepts. He would sit with me for an extended period of time if I was having trouble with understanding what was taught in class, even if it cut into his work time.
He would stay at home to work when I was sick so that he could take care of me. He would prepare food for me and bring it up to my room so that I would not have to feel exhausted.
While our family does not express emotions that often, I would usually go to my father if I was not feeling well.
My freshman year java teacher, and my father, were the ones who supported me in my decision to pursue computer science.
Now, in my late teens, I am thankful everyday that my father is still here for me. I tell him almost everything, from social to academic endeavors. I love talking with him during our weekly video calls.
I love him.
I hope this answers your question :) <3

一看到這個問題我就哭了。
我的父親是一個了不起的人。我一直叫他“daddy”，因為我從沒有長大，但他也當(dāng)之無愧，因為他為我做了很多。
我一出生，我的父親就把我抱在懷里，叫我“多莉”，因為我看起來像一個小娃娃，他會照顧我一輩子。
當(dāng)我還是個孩子的時候，我會把我所有的秘密都告訴他，因為他很少會對我生氣。
當(dāng)我十幾歲的時候，我會開始反抗，但我父親從來不會打我或?qū)ξ掖蠛按蠼?。他會平靜地解釋什么是對的，并試圖理解我的立場。
在我十幾歲的時候，他總是在學(xué)業(yè)上支持我。他會制造練習(xí)題讓我理解概念。。如果我聽不懂課上講的內(nèi)容，即使占用了他的工作時間，他也會在我旁邊坐很長一段時間。
我生病的時候他會呆在家里工作，這樣他就能照顧我。他會為我準(zhǔn)備食物，并把它帶到我的房間，這樣我就不會感到疲憊。
雖然我們家不經(jīng)常表達情感，但如果我感覺不舒服，我通常會去找我父親。
我大一的時候，我的java老師和我的父親是支持我選擇計算機科學(xué)的人。
現(xiàn)在，我十八九歲，我每天都心存感激，因為我的父親仍然陪在我身邊。我?guī)缀醺嬖V了他所有的事情，從社交活動到學(xué)術(shù)活動。我喜歡在每周的視頻通話中和他交談。
我愛他。
我希望這能回答你的問題。

Nisha, studied at Stella Maris College, Chennai
Let me tell you his story. He was the last child in his family and as soon as he was born, my grandpa passed away and he was called a bad omen. He was raised in poverty with his brothers and sisters as the relatives neglected my grandma and cheated her of everything as soon as my grandfather passed away. But my grandma was a strong willed person and took care of her children and raised them well.
My dad was made to do odd jobs and cleaning work by his relatives. He used to wear the old and tattered clothes of the relatives and when he asked for new clothes he was told he can’t have new ones cause he was the reason my grandpa passed away. He went to a government school and started learning English only when he was in his 5th grade. But, he is a very inquisitive and knowledge thirsty person. He made sure he gained something new in whatever work he did.
He wanted to become a doctor and took science for his higher studies but fate played a game and he couldn't write his exams. So without any option, he enrolled in B.Com. Later became a CA and is one of the best in my city right now.
Ask him anything and he will have an answer for everything. Taxation, investment, business, mythology, medicine, carpentry, politics, cinema and what not. Why? Because he reads, reads and reads a lot. He also made me develop that habit by making me read from a very young age. Wherever I go, I am regarded with respect once people know I am his daughter because of the empire he built from scratch purely by his hard work. Not to mention, he has always been a kind hearted person, helping people in need whenever he could with education and medical expenses.
he has never said No to anything I have asked for (reasonably :3) My granny on her death bed told that she wanted to have her last breath only in my dad’s house. He has been an amazing son, wonderful husband, awesome father and most of all, a fantastic human.
I wish I could be at least half the person he is :)

讓我來告訴你他的故事。他是家里最后一個孩子，他一出生，我的爺爺就去世了，他被認(rèn)為不詳。他和他的兄弟姐妹一起在貧困環(huán)境中長大，因為我的祖父一去世，親戚們就忽視了我的祖母，把她的一切都騙走了。但是我的奶奶是一個意志堅強的人，照顧她的孩子，把他們撫養(yǎng)得很好。
我爸爸被他的親戚強迫做一些零工和清潔工作。他過去常常穿親戚的舊衣服，當(dāng)他要求新的衣服時，他被告知他不能穿新的，因為他導(dǎo)致我爺爺去世。他去了一所公立學(xué)校，五年級時才開始學(xué)習(xí)英語。但是，他是一個非常好奇和渴望知識的人。他確保自己無論做什么工作都能有新的收獲。
他想成為一名醫(yī)生，在高等教育中攻讀理科，但命運捉弄了他，他無法通過考試。所以別無選擇，他注冊了B.Com。后來成為了一名CA，現(xiàn)在是我所在城市最好的CA之一。
他對任何問題都有答案：稅收、投資、商業(yè)、神話、醫(yī)藥、木工、政治、電影等等。為什么?因為他擁有大量閱讀。他還讓我從小養(yǎng)成了閱讀的習(xí)慣。無論我走到哪里，一旦人們知道我是他的女兒，我就會受到尊敬，因為他完全是白手起家靠自己的努力建立了這個帝國。更不用說，他一直是一個善良的人，隨時幫助需要幫助的人，他可以負(fù)擔(dān)教育和醫(yī)療費用。
他對我的任何合理的要求從來沒有說過“不”，我的奶奶在她臨死的時候說她只想在我爸爸的房子里咽下最后一口氣。他是一個了不起的兒子，了不起的丈夫，了不起的父親，最重要的是，他是一個了不起的人。我希望我至少做到他的一半。

Danii Puteri, lives in Indonesia
the only one who pleases me since I was a kid. everyone knows that I am his favorite child.
the only one who loves me more than others. he taught me a lot of things. he taught me to be strong, independent and responsible with my life. he taught me to be responsible with all the decisions that I have decided and made me learn to accept whatever the consequences of all my decisions.
the only one who is always with me, supports me, becomes my place to rely on, does not blame me, cheers me on and helps me stand up again if I end up making the wrong decision
the one who taught me how to cover up my feelings, how to control myself and my emotions and how to pretend that everything is okay
the only one who defended me while all my family, my relatives accused me and badmouthed me.
the only one who still believes in me even though everyone never trusts me because I'm famous for my madness, my mischief and everyone hates me but he still loves me unconditionally
the only one who protected me and calmed me down at that time when I was depressed and stressed because I broke up with my first love
I am the only one among my siblings who has ever felt what it is like to be married, with my father as my marriage guardian. I was so grateful when he could see his grandson was born and I knew he loved my son as much as how he loved me. And I really thank God because at least he can feel what it's like to have grandchildren before he dies
the only one who had a heart attack because at that time he could not hold back his sadness when he saw me being dressed up while having my wedding party. I think at that moment when he saw me getting dressed up, he knew that it was the last time I would get that close to him. because he knows after that day I will belong to someone else.
the only one who gave me a will before he died. I guess in the end even though I never told him what my marital situation was like, in the end he could feel it all.
I love you, pa … and I really miss you right now

從我小時候起唯一一個讓我開心的人。每個人都知道我是他最喜歡的孩子。
他是唯一一個比別人更愛我的人。他教了我很多東西。他教我生活中堅強，獨立和負(fù)責(zé)任。他教我對自己所做的決定負(fù)責(zé)任，讓我學(xué)會接受所有決定的后果。
他是唯一一個永遠(yuǎn)和我在一起，支持我，成為我的依靠，如果我最終做出的決定是錯誤的，不會責(zé)怪我，而是鼓勵我，幫助我站起來。
他教我如何掩飾自己的感情，如何控制自己的情緒，如何假裝一切都好。
當(dāng)我的家人，親戚都指責(zé)我，說我壞話的時候，他是唯一一個為我辯護的人。
他是唯一一個仍然相信我的人：因為我的瘋狂，我的惡作劇，每個人都恨我，盡管每個人都不相信我，但他仍然無條件地愛我。
因為我和我的初戀分手了，在我沮喪、壓力大的時候，唯一一個保護我、讓我冷靜下來的人。
在我的兄弟姐妹中，我是唯一一個感受過結(jié)婚是什么感覺的人，我的父親是我的婚姻監(jiān)護人。當(dāng)他看到自己的孫子出生時，我很感激他，我知道他像愛我一樣愛我的兒子。我真的很感謝上帝，因為至少他能體會到在他死前有孫子是什么感覺。
當(dāng)他看到我打扮后出席婚禮派對，因為當(dāng)時他無法抑制他的悲傷，他是唯一一個心臟病發(fā)作的人，我想當(dāng)他看到我盛裝打扮的那一刻，他知道這是我最后一次這么靠近他。因為他知道那天之后我會屬于別人。
他是唯一一個死前給我留遺囑的人。我想到最后，即使我從未告訴他我的婚姻狀況如何，他最終還是能感受到一切。
我愛你，爸爸，我現(xiàn)在真的很想你

RENUKA DEVI SOMASKANDAN, Student (2015-present)
Yeah i love my dad like anything. He is one of supportive person. Even in my studies when i get low mark he won't scold instead of that he give ideas to get good marks at next. His planning , suggestions are always fantastic. I can't say no to that. He cares for me like sky high. I can't explain it in words. He knows I'm fear of darkness so he is always behind me. I usually fear of animals like snake, dog. He says that you want to get out of this fear.. and give suggestions. Now somehow i manage when i see these things. One of best thing is till now he doesn't instead me to be first bt want me as best. Even evryone tease me i won't say anything. But he say you want to face people. He says that if there are good at teasing show what you are good at. They will stop. But reality its happened. He can't see me in sad. I used to smile for him always. When I'm sad none of comfort me like him. One of best quality abt him is his honesty level. In future i want to be like my dad in character and everythng.. Its one of my dream. When i scored good marks in 10th he never used to appreciate me directly. He is proudly says to another ppl only. That one word i want to hear from him is i'm proud of u. For that i will take steps. He is more that friend.. if he is silent for some reason i can't tolerate that. I used to cry like anything. Its cute when he fight with me when I'm coming late to home. He never use harsh words. Instead of that he will do like child he won't talk with me or sometimes he used to tease indirectly like i won't talk to ppl those who are coming late. Its really funny. But so cute. One time i said my frnds are teasing me sone extends he got angry and said how dare for them to tease my daughter hereafter if someone tease u i will talk in my manner like he said??while fighting he used to says that don't talk to me hereafter but reality is we can't maintain for that more hour. He sometimes forgets that talks normally. Even if he didn't talk i will make him talk. Usually i won't sorry to anyone. But in his case i will ready to say that without thinking a sec.while going shopping my sextion and his sextion is always same. He know my choice bttr than me. I used always get more things when i go with him.even sometimes in night study time he will wake up for me. even he doesn't have work he will do something. He used to prepare coffe for me. While I'm cooking he will suggest some tips to make ec. In morning study time he is alarm for me. Even he feels sleepy he tells to mom to make coffee for me. I feel happy for me. I can't say it in words abt his cares for me and my family. He is everythng to us.

是的，我愛我爸爸勝過一切。他是一個樂于助人的人。即使在我的學(xué)習(xí)中，當(dāng)我得到較低的分?jǐn)?shù)，他不會責(zé)罵，而不是他給主意，以獲得好分?jǐn)?shù)在下一個。他的計劃和建議總是很棒。(我不能拒絕。)他對我關(guān)懷備至。我無法用語言來解釋。他知道我怕黑，所以總是跟在我后面。我通常害怕像蛇、狗這樣的動物。他說你想擺脫這種恐懼。并給出建議。現(xiàn)在當(dāng)我看到這些東西的時候，不知怎么的，我能做到。最好的事情之一是，到目前為止，他沒有代替我成為第一個，而是希望我是最好的。即使每個人都取笑我，我也不會說什么。但他說你想面對別人。他說，如果有人擅長取笑別人，那就展示出你擅長什么。他們將停止。但事實是這樣的。他看不到我的悲傷。我以前總是對他微笑。當(dāng)我難過的時候，沒有一個人像他那樣安慰我。他的優(yōu)點之一是誠實。將來我想在性格和一切方面都像我爸爸。這是我的夢想之一。當(dāng)我在第十課中取得好成績時，他從來沒有直接欣賞過我。他驕傲地只對別人說。我想從他那里聽到的一句話是“我為你感到驕傲”，為了這個，我會采取措施。他更像是我的朋友。如果他因為某種原因保持沉默，我不能容忍。我以前哭得很厲害。當(dāng)我回家晚了的時候，他和我打架，這很可愛。他從不說刺耳的話。相反，他會像個孩子一樣，他不跟我說話，有時他會間接地取笑我不跟那些遲到的人說話。它真的很有趣。但是太可愛了。有一次我說我的朋友在取笑我，他很生氣，說他們怎么敢再取笑我的女兒，如果有人取笑你，我會像他以他的說話方式一樣用我的說話方式回應(yīng)他。我和他吵架的時候，他說以后不要跟我說話了，但事實是，我們無法堅持一個小時了。他有時會忘記自己說過的話。即使他不說話，我也要讓他說話，通常我不會向任何人道歉。但就他的情況而言，我會毫不猶豫地說出這句話。在購物時，我和他的選擇總是一樣的。他比我更了解我的選擇。當(dāng)我和他在一起的時候，我總是得到更多的東西。甚至有時候在晚上學(xué)習(xí)的時候，他也會為我醒來。即使他沒有工作要做，他也會做些事情的。他以前常給我煮咖啡。當(dāng)我做飯的時候，他會建議用一些烹飪技巧。在早上學(xué)習(xí)的時候，他叫我起床。即使他感到困倦，他也告訴媽媽為我煮咖啡。我為自己感到高興。我無法用言語表達他對我和我家人的關(guān)心，他是我們的一切。

Priyanuj Sarmah(????????? ?????), B.Tech Mechanical Engineering, National Institute of Technology Silchar (2020)
I reckon every single son or daughter in this world love their parents and I am a no exception.They are the reason why we got to see this beautiful world and it is more than enough reason to love your parents.
The quality of my dad which makes me love him a lot is that he is always beside me.He will always encourage me in whatever decision I take and will always back me up. He played a crucial role during my JEE preparation.
He ensured that I never felt too much pressure or expectations from them during my jee preparation.
He always encouraged me during my jee preparation days.When I would score less marks in test, he was the one who lifted me up and told me that one bad performance doesn't matter.
He made it clear that Jee was not the only option for me. He told me to prepare sincerely and leave the rest to almighty.If you have worked sincerely and with dedication, even if you don't get sexted, there is nothing too be sad about it,that's what he said to me during my jee preparation days. That always made me feel a bit relax.
He always has plan B ready incase plan A does not work. I remember he had fill online form of about 10 engineering institutes for me incase jee didn't work.
Even today if I don't do well in a subject in my college,he would not scold me but encourage me to do well in the next semester.He himself being an Engineer has helped me a lot as he knows how tough it is to get good pointers in exam .
He is the one who takes my side when I have an argument with my mom and tries to convince her even if the fault was mine.
He hardly scolds me and my sister( he has a lot of patience,another quality which I love about him) but also ensure that we donot get out of his hands.
In addition to this I love my dad because of his dedication to his work. He thinks about his work 24×7 and loves his job.( He hardly has time to spend with us and this irritates my mom a lot ).
My dad is my role model,my hero and I hope that I can become a dad like him.
I love you Papa.

我認(rèn)為這個世界上的每一個兒女都愛他們的父母，我也不例外。他們是我們看到這個美麗世界的原因，也是要愛JEE你父母的充足理由。
我爸爸讓我很愛他的品質(zhì)是他總是在我身邊。無論我做什么決定，他都會鼓勵我，并且永遠(yuǎn)支持我。在我準(zhǔn)備考試的過程中，他發(fā)揮了至關(guān)重要的作用。
他確保我在準(zhǔn)備考試的過程中，不會感到太多壓力或來自他們的期望。
在我準(zhǔn)備的日子里，他總是鼓勵我。當(dāng)我在考試中得分較低時，是他鼓勵我，一次糟糕的表現(xiàn)并不重要。
他明確表示，JEE考試不是我唯一的選擇。他告訴我要認(rèn)真地做好準(zhǔn)備，其余的就交給全能的上帝吧。如果你工作得很真誠，很有奉獻精神，即使你沒有被選中，也沒什么好傷心的，這是他在我準(zhǔn)備考試的時候?qū)ξ艺f的。這總是讓我感到放松。
他總是準(zhǔn)備好B計劃以防A計劃不起作用。我記得他在網(wǎng)上為我填寫了10個工程學(xué)院的表格，以防萬一。
即使是在今天，如果我在大學(xué)的某門課上做得不好，他也不會責(zé)罵我，而是鼓勵我在下個學(xué)期好好學(xué)習(xí)。他自己作為一名工程師幫助了我很多，因為他知道在考試中得到好的指示是多么困難。
當(dāng)我和媽媽爭吵時，即使是我的錯，他會站在我一邊，他也會試圖說服她。
他很少責(zé)罵我和我妹妹(他很有耐心，這是我喜歡他的另一個特點)，但也會確保我們不離開他的控制。
除此之外，因為他對工作的奉獻,我愛我的爸爸。他一天24小時思考他的工作。(他幾乎沒有時間和我們在一起，這讓我媽媽很生氣)。
我的爸爸是我的榜樣，我的英雄，我希望我能成為一個像爸爸一樣的人。
我愛你，爸爸。