Wrapping your mind around your life is pretty hard, because you are up to your neck in it.It's like trying to understand the ocean while learning how to swim. On most days you are busy just keeping your head above water. So it is not easy to figure out what to do with your life and how to spend your time.
There are a million distractions. Your family, friends and romantic partners, boring work and exciting projects. Video games to play and books to read. And then there is your couch that somebody needs to lie on. It's easy to get lost. So let us take a step back and take a look at your life from the outside.
The average Kurzgesagt viewer is around 25 years old. Which is a pretty good time in the life of most people: The insecurities of the teenage years have begun to recede.Maybe you find yourself in a job or a long term relationship. Maybe you've started a family, or are working on an advanced degree. Maybe you are not doing any of that and still want to enjoy life, whatever that means to you.
Or maybe you feel stuck and don't know where to go yet. About one in twenty people watching this video will get to live to 100. Let's assume you are one of the lucky ones, which means you had a total of 5200 weeks of life at your disposal when you were born.You spent the first 600 weeks of your life being a kid and 400 being a teenager. During this time you were pretty useless for society and also not very free to make your own decisions.
As a payoff, you were somewhat spared from the consequences and responsibilities of adulthood.Mostly because well meaning adults protected you by cleaning up your mess and giving you time to find yourself. This time is necessary to make you, at least in theory, a functioning human. Although most people probably don't feel like that after puberty. In any case,by the time you are 20, over 1000 of your 5200 weeks have passed.
Depending on what you aspire to, at this point you are either working already or have entered further education. The amount of fun you can have in this phase of your life varies a lot.If you pick up a trade or need to work to support yourself or others, the serious side of life begins earlier, if you go to university, you get to push back work life a bit longer.
In any case, most people start working for real in their twenties at the latest,Which begins the productive or potentially grinding or soul crushing period of your life. People tend to work until the age of 65. Which means that you'll spend at least 2000 weeks of your life with serious adult work – hopefully in a job that makes you feel good and appreciated or that makes the world better. This is such an important thing !
This is the main block of life for most people – The time when you might have kids and travel a bit and climb the career ladder and build a house, may get divorced and fall in love again. In this phase you transition from being young to middle aged to old – not old, old but the “young old” of your sixties. At 65 you have used up 3400 of your 5200 weeks.
The last phase of your life begins. If you've managed to acquire enough wealth to retire,in theory you are now free to do whatever you like, for up to 1800 weeks. But of course, this is not how it works for the majority of you watching this video. 19 out of 20 people will not live to one hundred. The average lifespan in the US is 79. In Germany it is 81. In Japan 84. In Brazil it is 75.
If you die at age 80, which is still not bad, you only have 780 weeks of freedom after you retire. That's roughly as many weeks of freedom as an old person as you spent as a child. Unfortunately disease and the tiredness of age trip you up here, because with old age the human body begins to decline sharply. For example the vast majority of cancer related deaths occur in people over 70. If you bet all your fun cards on being free and happy in your retirement you might be bitterly disappointed.
And all of this is still assuming things work out and you even get to grow old. You can drown in a pool at age 7, get cancer at age 32, die in a car crash at age 48. You can fall from a ladder at age 60. Every day the universe rolls a bunch of dice for every human– and everyday, someone somewhere on this planet, rolls a critical failure and their life ends that day. The older you get, the more dice are rolled for you.
Usually when you swim through the ocean that is your life, you do not think about all of this too much and that is fine. Life is engaging enough by itself and the future is this undefined weird thing. But thinking about it from time to time is helpful in refocusing on what you want to do and to minimize regrets you will have when you look back. And to remind you that if you don’t use your time today, you might not get a chance to use it tomorrow.
Life is complicated and it is hard to make decisions between all the things and people that are important to you.This has become painfully obvious to billions of people during the Coronavirus pandemic.If you respected social distancing, so many things that we took for granted were not available anymore. Traveling and public places and eating out and seeing friends and meeting new people.
Spending time together became limited and precious. But actually, the time you have with the people you love is already precious.Think of your parents. As a child you spend basically every day with them. Your time spent together begins to decline as you transition and become a teenager and fight to develop your own identity. But as teenagers you probably still see them regularly, which changes as you enter your twenties, when most people move out. For university, for work or just to be on their own.
If you are making an effort to be with your parents for two full weeks each year for the of their lives, which covers the main holidays, birthdays and a bit extra you still have already spent more than 90% of the time you will ever spend with them, even if they grow pretty old. If they die earlier or if you see them only a few days each year this number shrinks even more. So in all likelihood, the vast majority of time you will ever spend with your parents has passed.
The same holds true for your siblings or old friends that moved to the other side of the country. You are at the tail end of the time with some of the most important people in your life. One day you will see them for the last time. And it is actually the same with everything else. The concept of doing something for the last time feels eerie, like something that you should only experience when you are on death row or extremely old or something like that. But it happens all the time.
Is there a hobby you have been lazy about for a long time? Maybe you still have those Warhammer minis that you wanted to paint? Did you always want to revisit that place where you had an amazing time a decade ago? Is there someone you wanted to reach out to for a long time but haven't yet? Or pick up that sport again to meet new friends? Maybe you will never do any of these things again, because life gets in the way and at some point it is too late.
As the global Pandemic begins to wind down, we will all soon be able to be with each other again and do fun things together.It is never a bad time to reach out to a friend, or a potential friend and let them know that you are looking forward to hanging out.But no matter when you are watching this: our life is an incredible gift and there are so many fun, engaging and fulfilling things to do. And you get to decide what and who matters to you. But what matters the most is that you actually make decisions from time to time.
This video was based on and inspired by an article by our friend Tim Urban of Wait but Why, the best blog on the internet. Be sure to check it out to get more new perspectives on things.
I'm only 21 years old now, and the last time I saw my father was on his deathbed in early 2020. He passed at only 60 years old which is what they considered the “young” old…What I hate more than anything is he never got to see us grow, become successful, get married, and really make him proud. He was so full of life before he was diagnosed with cancer and this video hit me like a bus. Nothing is guaranteed. Appreciate whatever time you have with your loved ones. Don’t hold grudges because imo that only ends in regret when that inevitable time comes.
I've always had this feeling of not wanting to do the whole school-work-retirement. I figured life has no meaning but the one we give it. I don't need to be "successful" to be happy. At one point in life I realized that's what mattered to me, being happy.
So from that I don't think to quit a job that makes me unhappy, I don't keep people around who make me feel miserable, I started doing thingd that I felt proud of. I decided no one, not even my parents, would get in the way. Even though I'm still working on it I do feel a faint sense of hope that no matter how my life is right now I can make it fulfilling and an enjoyable experience.
Life is too short . I'm visiting my parents for 9 days in the past 14 months. I'm gonna buy a house in the burb next year and have my parents move in with me. Family is everything, my mom is the most important person in my life and I cherish and appreciate her every day of existence in my life. I love you mom.
I realized that recently when I calculated how long it would take to finish college and get to the point I want to be at in my life afterwards. It honestly made me get rid of the idea of filling my life with work because of how pointless it was.
But, on a cosmic level, unimaginably valuable, because most of the universe is void and inanimate. We are extraordinarily lucky to be surrounded by so much life.
I do believe that our conciousness does transcend into a different existential plane that is out of our reach because conciousness is something that defies math, science and the universe. But whether or the people who left before you would be waiting for you or you'll be alone until the next big thing or for eternity, is another thing on its own.
What if we try to find a way to regenerate all the cells of humans and keep the size of telomeres of human cells constant, we would become immortal and would be able to experience everything
I wouldn't give up on it... from an old person to you youngins.. you can walk and chew bubblegum. Study, make money, make friends.. go places. It's very possible and like anything in life you can learn to balance it. This video makes you feel like life and work take 120% effort but that's grossly over emphasized.
You weren't given life to be sad. Death is not a part of life. Life isn't short, life is very long. It's only short if you don't do anything with your life.
All of the lessons I learned from my parents were either "do as I say and not as I do" or "don't do as I say or do". One of the "don't do as I say or do" lessons was definitely embracing mortality salience and I think I've had a much happier life because of it.
Yep there is no point in stressing over much in life it all ends one day. The judgement of others should not matter and you should not care about other peoples opinions. We as humans put to much emphasis on what we do not have rather on what we have. there is no point in fretting over bullshit.
Sometimes the discussion or experience of death can give you a better perspective on life.
有時對死亡的討論或經(jīng)歷可以讓你對生活有一個更好的看法。
Yep. Life is living in the present moment. To slow down time, do something new, do something challenging. When you're too comfortable, you end up seeing the same things everyday, therefore you will speed up time.
I calculated a while back how many days you live throughout your life on average, and then I calculated how long I have lived to the exact day, and jeez that knocks a nice chunk off.
But it's generally something that's only meant to help us reflect on what direction we are going on in one way or another, and allow to make perhaps some better decisions on how we want to look back on our lives, or what we might like to do in the future.
That's got to be really annoying and weigh on you heavily. What do you think you might have done differently then after you had turned 25? As I turned 25 in December and I’m still in my second year of Uni, still figuring many things out.
To be fair, we are just monkeys with better brains. There is only like 1% DNA difference between us and chimpanzees. Humans are not as special as anyone think.
If you can not answer, it is neither yet true or false in your perspective, but you must be ready to accept either outcome. That said having to disprove something not proven is a logical fallacy. Also never be 100% certain of things, unless they are empirical or logical, but keep the possibility that our perception of reality is flawed, therefore nothing is certainly empirical, but we can say they are emperical beyond reasonable doubt.
You are free to keep your beliefs, they don't hurt anyone. When your beliefs start to negatively affect reality, they are delusions. Ex. religiously justified terrorism.
If we can make desirable genetic variations through genetic engineering in an adult then we might overcome this problem, after all depressing things, happy things all are inside our brain due to some Chemicals, let's make just try to do all we can in our given life
Problem was i just cared to much about someone's opinion, i didn't express myself. That should be a thing i would change, don't care about what others are thinking about me.
School and college are the ones who is wasting our life , to be honest , I think learning the basics of everything is good but they make it so long that it takes years
My parents want me to spend my time with them even if I'm trying to move out. I just want them to understand that all the hard work I do is for them. My mum is working at such an old age, doing heavy lifting for her isn't healthy and I just want to make it stop. I am trying to reach financial freedom to take care of her mainly and I will make it my priority.
I feel you. I'm grinding right now to buy a house and support my parents so my dad doesn't have to work till he's 75 and my mom and him can relax. They've given me their love and affection through all the tough times and I want to give back.
I'm roughly halfway through the video, yet I am rougly a quarter of the way through my life. I took a break from my work to watch Kurzgesagt, yet found myself galvanized with more indomitable fervor for my project. The continued furtherment of enlightenment and the advancement of humanity as a whole is the single most noble cause, yet it is a task in which we can all (even in the small things like a hug or waving to a stranger) partake.
This video is a terrifying reminder of mortality and the limited amount of time we have. But also a great reminder to reach out and spend that time doing something you love and sharing it with people like family and friends.
This video made me cry so hard but also made me feel so refreshed! I'm in this exact mid-twenties crisis and suffering with anxiety and depression during this pandemic context. Earlier today I literally thought “well I guess is too late to be something” and even though I know it's an absurd I sometimes have no strength to fight these thoughts. But now I felt like this video was literally a person hugging me and telling me that everything is gonna be ok but I have to fight for myself in order to do it. Thank you so much for that
I'm only thirteen and I feel like our daily routines or what we do throughout our life ,for example getting a job and even going to sleep around the same time as others is something that we all gained from our older generations. Most of us humans including me don't plan on doing anything specific the next day and just do the normal routing that drives us to continue life , but for others life is a hard problem to solve.
Life for them needs to have a purpose and I'm not going against that but I'm just saying that a lot of people think that getting a job is necessary and to be honest it isn't. It's kinda like the statement “it's time to get your life together” and that's is a broad statement that could mean many things to different people. I personally live life not to the fullest but to the most predictable and set goals that are not too hard yet actually impact my life positively.
Getting my age spot on really hit me hard. I moved out of my family's home just two months ago and I've just started on my new first-ever full-time job after graduating. I hope this will serve as a nice reminder as I keep going.
I actually think of this non stop since i was kid and i was depressed for a majority of that time and wasted years of my life thinking about this kind of things which led to my depression... DO NOT THINK ABOUT THIS SHIT AND ENJOY IN LIFE EVERYONE
PS. Balance is key to everything, work hard when you need to, have fun when you need to, socialize when you need to etc... Don't be lazy, think in advance always, be carefull, be patient, make sure you take good care of yourself so you can live longer to experience more...
I picked up drawing again recently, the best decision in a decade.
我最近又重新開始畫畫,這是十年來最好的決定。
After my great-grandmother passed away, I came to understand the value of this video. The time given to one person and human relationships are never infinite. I have come to believe that if there is a relationship that has already been established, it should be cherished, and that new challenges and relationships should not be delayed.
6:18 this is making me emotional for some reason. I really love how you point that out since I'm really close to my parents and siblings (as a Filipino, it is true to some) and even though I am now a teenager, I always seek and look for them in any possible way. Even if I'm busy with paperworks and some projects, I always take a break just to call them.
This was probably the hardest video to watch to date from Kurzgesagt. Like always how they make a complex topic easy to understand and the way they did just puts a lot of perspective in life. I almost teared at the part where they showed how much you would actually spend time with your parents if you moved out and visited them.
"What are you doing with your life?"
Me sobbing uncontrollably: I don't know Mr Scienceman, I don't know
“你的人生打算怎么過?”
我控制不住地抽泣起來:我不知道,科學(xué)先生,我不知道。
This is something I've been mentally facing for quite some time now. Wrapping my head around having to make choices and commit to them wisely as we are all subjected to limited time in this world is quite a challenge. With understanding of this came the feeling of meaninglessness of it all.
However this feeling lets me appreciate life more and do what's better for me ,specifically my time here might be limited, but its mine. A bit of a bittersweet realisation, really. Glad this video exists
My cousin passed away three years ago at the age of 27 and this video made me cry. I don't regret spending not enough time with him, you shouldn't regret anything of the sort ever and still it is hard to accept the fact that at some point without me knowing, I had already spent all the time I would have ever spent with him.
I think this was a great video to be aware about the span of your life and spending your time well with family and friends. It is good to do those things and to grow in a relationship with each other. While many people see death as a hopeless thing, I see it as a passing from one stage of life to another.
It was a genius idea to put the remaining time in life in weeks instead of years. Using weeks, even if there are thousands of them left, really helps ya grasp the dwindling time of life you have left at whatever age you are.
It must be amazing to not be plagued by these thoughts all the time. How the clock is always ticking and each breath you take is one breath less in some unknown grand total of your life time.
我現(xiàn)在才21歲,最后一次見到父親是在2020年初的病榻上。他年僅60歲就去世了,這是他們認(rèn)為的“年輕”的年紀(jì)……我最討厭的是他從未看到我們成長、成功、結(jié)婚,并真正讓他感到驕傲。他在被診斷出癌癥之前,是如此充滿活力,這段視頻像巴士一樣撞上了我的心口。世上什么事情都不能保證。感激你和你愛的人在一起的時光。不要心懷怨恨,因?yàn)楫?dāng)不可避免的時刻到來時,怨恨只會以遺憾告終。
我一直有一種不想完成整個上學(xué)-工作-退休過程的感覺。我覺得生活沒有意義,只有我們賦予它意義。我不需要“成功”就能快樂。在人生的某個階段,我意識到對我來說,快樂才是最重要的。
所以從那以后,我不認(rèn)為辭職會讓我不開心,我不會讓那些使我感到痛苦的人留在身邊,我開始做一些讓我感到自豪的事情。我決定沒有任何人可以妨礙我,即使是我的父母。盡管我仍在努力,但我確實(shí)感到一種微弱的希望,那就是無論我現(xiàn)在的生活如何,我都能讓它變得充實(shí)和愉快。
生命太短暫了。在過去的14個月里,我有9天去看望我的父母。我打算明年在郊區(qū)買棟房子,讓父母搬來和我一起住。家庭就是一切,我的媽媽是我生命中最重要的人,我珍惜和感激她在我生命中存在的每一天。媽媽,我愛你。
最近,當(dāng)我計(jì)算完成大學(xué)并達(dá)到我以后想要達(dá)到的目標(biāo)需要多長時間時,我意識到了這一點(diǎn)。 老實(shí)說,這讓我擺脫了用工作來充實(shí)我生活的想法,因?yàn)樗嵌嗝春翢o意義。
但是,在宇宙的層面上,它的價值是難以想象的,因?yàn)橛钪娲蟛糠侄际翘摽盏暮蜔o生命的。我們非常幸運(yùn)地被如此多的生命所圍繞。
我確實(shí)相信,我們的意識確實(shí)超越了我們無法觸及的不同存在層面,因?yàn)橐庾R是一種挑戰(zhàn)數(shù)學(xué)、科學(xué)和宇宙的東西。但是,在你之前離開的人是否會等著你,或者你會獨(dú)自一人直到下一個大事件,或者永遠(yuǎn)獨(dú)自一人,這是另一回事。
如果我們試圖找到一種方法來再生人類的所有細(xì)胞,并保持人類細(xì)胞端粒的大小不變,我們就會變得長生不老,并能夠體驗(yàn)一切。
我不會放棄的...從一個老人到你們年輕人..你可以邊走邊嚼泡泡糖。學(xué)習(xí),賺錢,交朋友.....去一些地方。這是非??赡艿模拖裆钪械娜魏问虑橐粯?,你可以學(xué)會平衡它。這個視頻讓你覺得生活和工作需要120%的努力,但這被過分強(qiáng)調(diào)了。
你活著不是為了悲傷。死亡不是生命的一部分。人生不是短暫的,相反,人生是漫長的。如果你一輩子不做任何事情,生命才會短暫。
我從父母那里學(xué)到的所有教訓(xùn)要么是“照我說的做,不要照我做的做”,要么是“不要照我說的或者我做的做”。其中一個“不要照我說的或做的去做”的教訓(xùn)就是接受死亡的重要性,我認(rèn)為我的生活因此變得更幸福了。
是的,生活中壓力過大是沒有意義的,總有一天一切都會結(jié)束。別人的評價不重要,你不應(yīng)該在意別人的意見。作為人類,我們更重視我們沒有的東西,而不是我們擁有的東西。為胡說八道而煩惱是沒有意義的。
有時對死亡的討論或經(jīng)歷可以讓你對生活有一個更好的看法。
是的。生活就是活在當(dāng)下。放慢時間,做一些新的事情,做一些有挑戰(zhàn)性的事情。當(dāng)你太舒服的時候,你最終每天都會看到同樣的事情,因此會加快時間。
不久之前,我計(jì)算了一下你一生中平均能活多少天,然后我計(jì)算了我能活到確切那一天的時間,天哪,這可真是少了一大塊。
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但一般來說,這只是為了幫助我們反思我們正以這樣或那樣的方式朝著什么方向前進(jìn),并允許我們就如何回顧我們的生活或我們未來可能喜歡做什么,而做出一些更好的決定。
這個想法一定很煩人,而且會給你帶來沉重的負(fù)擔(dān)。你認(rèn)為在你25歲之后,你會做些什么不同的事情?到12月時我就25歲了,我還在讀大學(xué)二年級,還在想很多事情。
平心而論,我們只是頭腦更好的猴子。我們和黑猩猩之間只有1%的基因差異。人類并不像任何人想象的那么特別。
如果你不能回答,在你看來它既不是真的也不是假的,但是你必須準(zhǔn)備好接受任何一種結(jié)果。也就是說,對未證明的事情反駁是一種邏輯謬誤。也永遠(yuǎn)不要百分之百地確定事物,除非它們是經(jīng)驗(yàn)性的或邏輯性的,但要保持我們對現(xiàn)實(shí)的感知是有缺陷的可能性,因此沒有任何事情是絕對經(jīng)驗(yàn)性的,但我們可以說它們在超越合理懷疑之外是經(jīng)驗(yàn)性的。
你可以自由地堅(jiān)持你的信仰,它們不會傷害任何人。當(dāng)你的信念開始對現(xiàn)實(shí)產(chǎn)生負(fù)面影響時,它們就是錯覺。例如:宗教上的恐怖主義。
如果我們能通過基因工程在成年人身上制造出令人滿意的基因變異,那么我們就有可能克服這個問題,畢竟,由于某些化學(xué)物質(zhì),所有令人沮喪的事情、令人高興的事情都在我們的大腦中,讓我們試著在我們給定的生命中盡我們所能做我們可以做的事情。
問題是我只是太在乎別人的意見,我沒有表達(dá)真實(shí)的自己。這應(yīng)該是我要改變的事情,不要在意別人對我的看法。
學(xué)校和大學(xué)是浪費(fèi)我們生命的地方。老實(shí)說,我認(rèn)為學(xué)習(xí)所有的基礎(chǔ)知識都是好的,但它們太長了,需要花費(fèi)數(shù)年的時間
即使我想搬出去,我的父母也希望我能和他們在一起。我只是想讓他們明白,我所做的一切努力都是為了他們。我媽媽年紀(jì)這么大還在工作,做重活對她來說是不健康的,我只想讓她不再工作。我正在努力實(shí)現(xiàn)經(jīng)濟(jì)自由,主要是照顧她,我將把這件事情作為我的優(yōu)先事項(xiàng)。
我很明白你的感受。我現(xiàn)在在努力買房子,養(yǎng)活我父母,這樣我爸爸就不用工作到75歲,我媽媽和他就可以放松了。他們在所有艱難的日子里,給了我他們的愛和感情,我想回報(bào)他們。
我大概看了一半的視頻,然而我差不多已經(jīng)走了四分之一的人生。我從工作中休息了一會兒,看了“簡而言之“,但我發(fā)現(xiàn)我對自己的目標(biāo)充滿了不屈不撓的熱情。啟蒙運(yùn)動的繼續(xù)推進(jìn)和整個人類的進(jìn)步是唯一最崇高的事業(yè),但這是一項(xiàng)我們所有人都可以參與的任務(wù)(即使是像擁抱或向陌生人揮手這樣的小事)。
這段視頻可怕地提醒我們死亡和我們有限的時間。但同時這也是一個很好的提醒,你要走出去,花時間做自己喜歡的事情,并與家人和朋友分享。
這段視頻讓我哭得很傷心,但也讓我感到精神振奮!在這場新冠病毒疫情的背景下,我正處于25歲左右的危機(jī)中,飽受焦慮和抑郁的折磨。今天早些時候,我真的認(rèn)為:“嗯,我想現(xiàn)在做某事已經(jīng)太晚了”。盡管我知道這是一個荒謬的想法,但我有時沒有力量去對抗這些想法。但是現(xiàn)在我覺得這個視頻就像一個人擁抱我,告訴我一切都會好起來的,我必須為自己奮斗。非常感謝你
我只有十三歲,我覺得我們的日常生活或我們一生中所做的事情,例如找工作,甚至與其他人大約在同一時間睡覺,都是我們從老一輩那里獲得的東西。 我們大多數(shù)人,包括我在內(nèi),第二天不打算做任何特定的事情,只是按照正常的路線來推動我們繼續(xù)生活,但對其他人來說,生活是一個難以解決的問題。
對他們來說,生活需要有一個目標(biāo),我不反對這一點(diǎn),我只是說,很多人認(rèn)為找工作是必要的,老實(shí)說并非如此。這有點(diǎn)像“是時候讓你的生活回到正軌了”的說法,這是一個寬泛的說法,可能對不同的人來說意味著很多事情。我個人并沒有把生活過得最充實(shí),而是過得最可預(yù)測的,設(shè)定的目標(biāo)不會太難,但會對我的生活產(chǎn)生積極的影響。
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這個年齡階段真的對我打擊很大。 兩個月前,我搬出了我家,剛剛開始畢業(yè)后的第一份全職工作。 希望這將成為我繼續(xù)前進(jìn)的一個很好的提醒。
事實(shí)上,從我還是個孩子的時候起,我就不停地思考這個問題,當(dāng)時我大部分時間都很沮喪,浪費(fèi)了很多年的時間去思考這種導(dǎo)致我抑郁的事情...大家不要想這些,享受生活吧
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我最近又重新開始畫畫,這是十年來最好的決定。
我的曾祖母去世后,我開始理解這個視頻的價值。一個人的時間和人際關(guān)系從來都不是無限的。我開始相信,如果有一種關(guān)系已經(jīng)被建立,就應(yīng)該珍惜它,新的挑戰(zhàn)和關(guān)系也不應(yīng)該被拖延。
在視頻6分18秒的時候,出于某種原因,使我情緒激動。我真的很喜歡你指出的這一點(diǎn),因?yàn)槲液臀业母改敢约靶值芙忝谜娴暮苡H近(作為一個菲律賓人,這對一些人來說是真實(shí)的),即使我現(xiàn)在是一個青年,我總是用任何可能的方式聯(lián)系他們。即使我忙于文書工作和一些項(xiàng)目,我也總是休息一下,給他們打電話。
這可能是簡而言之迄今為止最沉重的視頻。像往常一樣,他們讓一個復(fù)雜的話題變得容易理解,他們這樣做的方式給生活提供了很多視角。當(dāng)我看到這部分,我?guī)缀跻蘖?,他們向我展示,如果你搬出去并且再回去看望父母,你會花多少時間和他們在一起。
Me sobbing uncontrollably: I don't know Mr Scienceman, I don't know
“你的人生打算怎么過?”
我控制不住地抽泣起來:我不知道,科學(xué)先生,我不知道。
這是我在心理上已經(jīng)面對很長一段時間的事情。當(dāng)我們都在這個世界上受到有限時間的限制時,我必須做出選擇并明智地承諾,這是一個相當(dāng)大的挑戰(zhàn)。理解了這一點(diǎn),就產(chǎn)生了一切都毫無意義的感覺。
然而這種感覺讓我更加珍惜生活,做對我更好的事情,具體來說,我的時間可能是有限的,但它是我的。有點(diǎn)苦樂參半的感覺,真的。很高興有這個視頻。
我的表哥三年前去世了,年齡27歲,這段視頻讓我哭了。我不后悔沒有花足夠多的時間和他在一起,你也不應(yīng)該后悔任何類似的事情,但是很難接受這樣一個事實(shí): 在某些我不知道的時候,已經(jīng)花了我本該和他在一起的所有時間。
我認(rèn)為這是一個很好的視頻,可以讓你了解到自己的生命跨度,并與家人和朋友共度美好時光。做這些事情并在彼此的關(guān)系中成長是件好事。雖然許多人認(rèn)為死亡是一件沒有希望的事情,但我認(rèn)為它是從生命的一個階段過渡到另一個階段。
把生命中剩余的時間用幾周而不是幾年來計(jì)算,這是一個天才的想法。用幾周的時間來計(jì)算,即使還剩幾千周,真的能幫助你把握住你在任何年齡所剩下的生命中日漸縮短的時間。
沒有一直被這些想法困擾一定很神奇。時鐘總是在滴答滴答地響著,你的每一次呼吸都是在你生命中未知的總時間里少呼吸一次。