我們在哪里可以找到幸福（下）

Akshaya Vandana V, lives in Bengaluru, Karnataka, India

Akshaya Vandana V，居住在印度卡納塔克邦的班加魯

Happiness ha?? Its just what I feel ,u feel to whatever circumstances it is ..
My happiness can be eating,doing nothing or may be fighting with mybrother or crying or staying alone anything.Urs can be different too..Both positive and negative scenarios provide happiness in its own way..
May be even im still Hunting..I Hope you too hunt and get it as well.
Be Happy, Smile

幸?！@正是我的感受，無論在什么情況下，你都會有這種感受。
我的快樂可以是吃飯—而什么也不做，或者和弟弟打架，或者哭泣，或者獨(dú)自呆著。你的快樂也可以是不同的。積極和消極的情景都以自己的方式提供快樂。。
也許我的快樂是在打獵，我希望你也去打獵，也能在打獵中得到快樂。
要快樂，微笑。

Soumita Mallick

蘇米塔·馬利克

"Self loathing?Why would anyone even do that?",he asked me as if he was surprised.
I stared at him.So,this man here just says he never loathed himself?Never once in his thirty or so years of existence?This could'nt be possible.
"So......with that we could conclude that...you're always happy...?",I enquired with disbelief.
"Yes,yes,why not.Life is so short,why make it melancholic.People think that the right time will come to make them happy and while waiting,it becomes frustrating.Live,while you're alive,"saying this,he closed his eyes,took a deep breath and put his arms in the air.
"Isn't nature magical?So beautiful are these trees and flowers and the chirping sparrows and little kittens and puppies roaming.Why, doesn't the vastness of nature excite you?I feel like I'm surrounded by magic all the time!Why should I loathe myself when I am so blessed and lucky to be here in the midst of so much beauty!",he told all of this in one go,smiling.
I thought he was certainly mad.He's homeless,and he says he loves living like that,roaming on the streets, living on park benches,unsure of every next moment.I ask him if he has any family.
"Yeah,I had one,but I left them.I left everything to be at peace,"he answered without a tinge of guilt in his voice.

我想他一定是瘋了。他無家可歸，他說他喜歡這樣生活，在街上閑逛，住在公園的長椅上，對每一刻都不確定。我問他是否有家人。
“是的，我有一個(gè)，但我離開了他們。我離開一切是為了和平，”他回答，聲音中沒有一絲內(nèi)疚。
“自我厭惡？為什么會有人這樣做？”他問我，好像他很驚訝。
我盯著他看,那么,這個(gè)人就說他從來沒有厭惡過自己,在他三十多年的生活中從來沒有過一次,這是不可能的。
“這么說的話，我們可以得出結(jié)論：你總是快樂的。”我懷疑地問。
“是的，為什么不這樣呢。生命如此短暫，為什么要讓它變得憂郁。人們認(rèn)為是時(shí)候讓他們快樂了，而在等待的時(shí)候，它變得令人沮喪。其實(shí)活著就好?！闭f著，他閉上眼睛，深吸一口氣，把雙臂舉起來。
“大自然不是很神奇嗎？這些樹木、花朵、唧唧喳喳的麻雀、小貓小狗到處游蕩，真是太美了。為什么步這樣認(rèn)為呢，大自然的浩瀚不讓你興奮嗎？我感覺自己一直被魔法包圍著！當(dāng)我如此幸運(yùn)地置身于如此美麗的環(huán)境中時(shí)，我為什么要厭惡自己呢！”，他笑著一下子把這一切都講了出來。

Now I was certain that he was crazy.What about his responsibilities as a family member?He just left?
But...there's something about him,a serene peace surrounds him.I feel as if his happiness is radiating in his surroundings.If a homeless man can be contented and happy,why can't I,who has everything any person could ever want,you name it-a big bungalow,a high paying job,a nice family.But something is I've felt like like this for so long.
"But I'm not at all happy,I want to feel good like you do.Please help me",I requested him.
"You try to find happiness in great events of your life.You are too worried.Live in the moment.I bet you're thinking about your next day at office right now,"and he looked straight into my eyes.I felt guilty."You never know,your life can change hugely in any moment.So make the most of your time now.In this very moment,"he smiled and looked at the sky that was covered with dark grey clouds,warning us .I wondered how he would spend the night.But he didn't seem to think of it,he was smiling and trying to absorb all the beauty of that cloudy evening.I was surprised by his way of looking at things,and a while later,I bid him goodbye.
The man was right,I try to find happiness in success,in grandeur events.Walking home,with the pleasant wind softly blowing,I felt a strange calmness within me after the encounter.

現(xiàn)在我確信他瘋了。他作為家庭成員的責(zé)任是什么？他卻選擇離家出走？
但是他身上有一些東西，一種寧靜的平靜包圍著他。我感覺他的快樂似乎在他的周圍散發(fā)。如果一個(gè)無家可歸的人能夠滿足和快樂，為什么我不能感覺到快樂呢，因?yàn)槲覔碛腥魏稳讼胍囊磺?，你可以說，一間大平房，一份高薪的工作，一個(gè)美好的家庭。但有些東西是我這么長時(shí)間以來一直感覺到的。
“但我一點(diǎn)也不高興，我想和你一樣感覺良好。請幫幫我?！蔽艺埱笏?br /> “你試圖在生活中的重大事件中找到幸福。你太放不下了—活在當(dāng)下就好。我打賭你現(xiàn)在正在考慮你明天在辦公室需要做的工作，”他直視著我的眼睛。我感到內(nèi)疚?！澳阌肋h(yuǎn)不知道，你的生活隨時(shí)都可能發(fā)生巨大的變化。所以現(xiàn)在就充分利用你的時(shí)間。就在這一刻，”他笑了笑，看著烏云密布的天空，警告我們。我不知道他這一夜將如何度過。但他似乎并沒有想到這一點(diǎn)，他微笑著，試圖吸收這個(gè)多云的夜晚所有的美。我對他看待事物的方式感到驚訝，過了一會兒，我跟他告別了。
這個(gè)人是對的，我試著追求成功中，在偉大的事件中尋找幸福。走回家時(shí)，微風(fēng)輕輕地吹拂著，在那次邂逅之后，我感到一種奇怪的平靜。
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Sameer Rai, Btech from Meghnad Saha Institute of Technology (2019)

Sameer Rai，Meghnad Saha理工學(xué)院理學(xué)學(xué)士（2019年）

Happiness can be found in the state of mind. You don't have to look here and there or go to market for buying happiness.
Things to remain happy????
Be satisfied with what you have
Respect everyone and talk with them politely
Be helpful to humans as well as animals
Help the needy one's.
Live the present and don't think much about future
Cherish the every moment of life because you might don't know about tomorrow. *Keep smiling??

幸?？梢栽谛木持姓业健Ｄ悴槐氐教帉ふ?，也不必去市場購買幸福。
保持快樂的事情：對你所擁有的感到滿意。
尊重每個(gè)人，禮貌地與他們交談；
幫助人類和動(dòng)物；
幫助有需要的人。
活在當(dāng)下，不要為未來想太多。
珍惜生命中的每一刻，因?yàn)槟憧赡懿恢烂魈鞎l(fā)生什么，保持微笑就好。

Cibol Vintage, Happiness enthusiast

Cibol Vintage，快樂愛好者

I am very happy today. Usually I feel damn messed up and find myself cooking the broth of anxiety. But, at this moment, I feel happy because of few cutesy small things.
I took the only bar of dairy milk from the refrigerator and had a bite, gave half of it to my sister too.
I watched few animation videos, especially teddies.
I finished my work before the timeline, so that I can laze around tomorrow.
Moreover, it is raining here, chill weather and cool breeze, a perfect combo it is.
Small things do give use happiness. Having a shoulder to lean on, or having someone to share the last piece of cake, having a few good-hearted souls is completeness. Life gets difficult when are on our own. Ability to dilute stress and putting forth an effort to seek happiness, do help us to clear a part of our agony.

我今天很高興。通常我會覺得一團(tuán)糟，發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在焦慮中煎熬。但是，此時(shí)此刻，我感到快樂—因?yàn)橐恍┛蓯鄣男∈虑椤?br /> 我從冰箱里拿出唯一一塊牛奶，喝了一口，并分享一半給了我妹妹。
我很少看動(dòng)畫視頻，尤其是泰迪熊。
我在時(shí)間線之前完成了我的工作，這樣我明天就可以無所事事了。
此外，外面還在下雨，寒冷的天氣和涼爽的微風(fēng)，是一個(gè)完美的組合。
小事情確實(shí)能帶來快樂：有一個(gè)肩膀可以依靠、有人可以分享最后一塊蛋糕，有幾個(gè)善良的靈魂是完整的。當(dāng)我們獨(dú)自一人的時(shí)候，生活會變得很困難。淡化壓力和努力尋找幸福的能力，確實(shí)有助于我們清除一部分痛苦。

Divanshu Sharma, Trying to decipher the medical code

Divanshu Sharma試圖破譯醫(yī)學(xué)密碼

Seek out the happiness in all of life's crappiness. Some find happiness wherever they go, others whenever they go .
Happiness is.. maybe finding money in your pocket but it gets wasted in finding more happiness. hence happiness is not money. Happiness is not a place either , it's more of a direction. All I know is that it's not taxable hence everyone can afford it. For me liking what I do is happiness because it usually doesn't work the other way round.
From here to there and there to here , funny things are everywhere.

在生活的所有垃圾中尋找幸福。有些人無論走到哪里都能找到幸福，有些人無論走到哪里都無法找到幸福。
幸福是：也許在口袋里找到了錢，但在尋找更多的幸福時(shí)卻浪費(fèi)了錢。所以幸福不是金錢。幸福也不是一個(gè)地方，它更多的是一個(gè)方向。我所知道的是，它不征稅，因此每個(gè)人都能負(fù)擔(dān)得起。對我來說，喜歡我所做的事情就是幸福，因?yàn)樗ǔ２粫鸱醋饔谩?br /> 從這里到那里，從那里到這里，到處都是有趣的事情。

Sagnik Misra, Btech in CSCE from Kalinga Institute of Industrial Technology (2021)
When the father wants to be the kid of his own kid
Life changes drastically. We all are the particles of this beautiful journey where we don't know the moment which accelerate us to grow.
I have seen my father through the different phases of life but never thought to become my father's guide.
One fine evening, when I was busy in working with my projects then I found my father, sitting with my mother and remembering the past days.
I joined the discussion with them and my father told me,
“Son, I used to roam the whole city during your childhood even in the evening with you after my office. That were those days when rickshaw and my shoulder was two of your favourite happiness producing places.”
Tears started to roll out from my eyes just to remember the fact that days have been changed but our bond remained tight.

當(dāng)父親想成為自己孩子的孩子時(shí)；
生活發(fā)生了翻天覆地的變化。我們都是這個(gè)美麗旅程中的微粒，我們不知道是什么時(shí)刻加速了我們的成長。
我看到父親經(jīng)歷了人生的不同階段，但從未想過要成為父親的向?qū)А?br /> 一個(gè)晴朗的晚上，當(dāng)我忙于我的項(xiàng)目時(shí)，我發(fā)現(xiàn)我的父親和我的母親坐在一起，回憶著過去的日子。
我參加了與他們的討論，我父親告訴我，
“兒子，在你的童年時(shí)代，甚至在晚上下班后，我都會和你一起在整個(gè)城市游蕩。那時(shí)候，人力車和我的肩膀是你最喜歡的兩個(gè)幸福的地方。”
淚水開始從我的眼睛里滾滾而出，只是為了回憶這樣一個(gè)事實(shí)：時(shí)間變了，但我們的關(guān)系仍然很緊密。

The grey hair and thin body of my father started making me think that age can turn a man to a kid.
Suddenly, I hugged my father and started waving hands through out his grey hair like he used to do with me when I was a mere kid. Even after so many disagreements, he stood up and I tried to hold him up like he used to do.
We had a great laugh altogether and coincidentally, things started to shine like a fine wine.
Later that night when I was working in the dim light, my father came and told me,
“Son, proud to be your son. ”
One day this man starved the whole time while trying to accomplish his father's wishes but today when he saw resemblance of himself in his son then automatically the happiness swapped in greater form.

我父親灰白的頭發(fā)和瘦削的身體開始讓我覺得年齡可以把一個(gè)男人變成一個(gè)孩子。
突然，我擁抱了父親，開始揮手撫摸他的白發(fā)，就像我還是個(gè)孩子時(shí)他對我做的那樣。盡管有這么多分歧，他還是站了起來，我試著像他以前那樣扶著他。
我們一起大笑，巧合的是，一切開始像美酒一樣閃閃發(fā)光。
那天晚上晚些時(shí)候，當(dāng)我在昏暗的燈光下工作時(shí)，我父親來告訴我，
“兒子，作為你的兒子感到驕傲?！?br /> 有一天，這個(gè)人為了實(shí)現(xiàn)他父親的愿望一直在挨餓，但今天，當(dāng)他看到兒子與自己相似時(shí)，幸福感自然而然地以更大的形式交換了。

As because you are dealing with huge responsibilities and burdens of life doesn't mean that there's no happiness in this world flight. Just look around, see yourself, growing everyday and see your surroundings shinning just because of your existence will be able to give you permanent happiness with a broader view.
Happiness is in your heart. Happiness is in your mind. Once you start enjoying your responsibility, work and environment, you'll find yourself as the place of happiness with a brighter side.

因?yàn)槟阏谔幚砩钪械木薮筘?zé)任和負(fù)擔(dān)，并不意味著這個(gè)世界上沒有幸福。只要環(huán)顧四周，看看你自己，每天都在成長，看看你周圍的環(huán)境因?yàn)槟愕拇嬖诙陟谏x，你就能以更廣闊的視野給你帶來永久的幸福。
幸福就在你的心里。幸福就在你的思想里。一旦你開始享受你的責(zé)任、工作和環(huán)境，你會發(fā)現(xiàn)自己擁有快樂的一面，有著光明的一面。

Nandani Singh, Student

南達(dá)尼·辛格，學(xué)生

We can find our happiness ANYWHERE.
Seriously, I am not kidding. We can find our happiness anywhere because our happiness lies beneath us, in our mind, our soul, and most importantly our heart. I know every one of us has our own share of hardness and pain and trust me there is not a single person here who would say they have got no share of hardships and struggles. Even Lord Krishna was brought up without his parents, even Jesus had got blamed for the sins he never did.
So, just remember one thing during hardships “THIS TOO SHALL PASS” and just try to find your happiness.

我們可以在任何地方找到我們的幸福。
說真的，我不是在開玩笑。我們可以在任何地方找到我們的幸福，因?yàn)槲覀兊男腋＞驮谖覀兊哪_下，在我們的頭腦中，在我們的靈魂中，最重要的是在我們的內(nèi)心。我知道我們每個(gè)人都有自己的痛苦，相信我，這里沒有一個(gè)人會說他們沒有經(jīng)歷過艱難困苦。即使Lord Krishna那在沒有父母的情況下長大，甚至耶穌也因?yàn)樗麖奈捶高^的罪而受到指責(zé)。
所以，在困難中記住一件事“這也會過去”，試著去尋找你的幸福。

Tejasvita Apte, I think, therefore I am
I found your use of words very interesting.
You say, Where can I find happiness?
Firstly, when you use the word 'where' it refers to a place or a position. Clearly you do not mean a geographical location.
You mean a situation or a circumstance.
I can give you a hundred answers to that. 261 already exist! Each more creative than the other and each a result of someone's opinion. Will that make you happy? I doubt!
I think the first thing we should understand is that the words 'happiness' and 'where' cannot be asked in the same sentence. When you do so, you are confusing happiness, with gratification.

我發(fā)現(xiàn)你用詞很有趣。
你說，我在哪里能找到幸福？
首先，當(dāng)你用where這個(gè)詞時(shí)，它指的是一個(gè)地方或一個(gè)位置。很明顯，你指的不是地理位置。
你指的是一種情況。
我可以給你一百個(gè)答案。每一個(gè)都比另一個(gè)更有創(chuàng)造性，而且都是某人觀點(diǎn)。那會讓你快樂嗎？我表示懷疑！
我認(rèn)為我們首先應(yīng)該理解的是，不能在同一句話中同時(shí)問“幸?！焙汀霸谀睦铩?。當(dāng)你這么做的時(shí)候，你把幸福和滿足混為一談。

Happiness v/s Gratification
So, what is the difference between the two?
The difference is, when you say, where can I find happiness, you essentially mean gratification. Satisfaction that is a result of fulfillment of a desire. Because you are asking for something outside.
So, then you get answers like, after I do this (say donate money, or earn some more, or buy something), I will be happy. You don't mean happy. You mean gratified.
You will be satisfied after completing your goal.
That is gratification.
Happiness on the other hand, is quite different. In fact I believe, none of us even knows what happiness is for we haven't ever experienced it at all. We have confused it with gratification.
Because happiness is never a part of where, in what, etc. It is never outside of you or beyond this moment.

幸福與滿足
那么，兩者的區(qū)別是什么呢？
區(qū)別在于，當(dāng)你說，我在哪里可以找到幸福，你本質(zhì)上是指滿足。滿足是欲望實(shí)現(xiàn)的結(jié)果。因?yàn)槟阋蟮氖峭庠诘臇|西。
所以，你會得到這樣的答案，在我這樣做之后（比如說捐錢，或者賺更多的錢，或者買一些東西），我會很高興。你不是說快樂，你是說滿足。
完成目標(biāo)后你會感到滿意—這就是滿足。
另一方面，幸福是完全不同的。事實(shí)上我相信，沒有人知道什么是幸福，因?yàn)槲覀儚奈唇?jīng)歷過幸福。我們把它與滿足混為一談。
因?yàn)樾腋膩矶疾皇窃谀睦?，在什么地方。它從來都不是在你之外，也不是在此刻之外?/b>