網(wǎng)友討論：印度童婚 （2021年）
What are some things that make you sad?
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今天我和媽媽一起去市場上買手鐲。當(dāng)我走進(jìn)手鐲店時，我很震驚，一個大約10-12歲的女孩和她的婆婆在一起。
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What are some things that make you sad?
有什么讓你感到悲傷的事情嗎？
有什么讓你感到悲傷的事情嗎？
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今天我和媽媽一起去市場上買手鐲。當(dāng)我走進(jìn)手鐲店時，我感到很震驚，一個大約10-12歲的女孩正和她的婆婆在一起。
她嘗試著不同尺寸的手鐲，想找到適合自己手腕大小的手鐲。她的婆婆要求店主至少送5套不同顏色的手鐲過來，因為她剛結(jié)婚，每隔一天就要換一套。
譯注：樓主發(fā)的圖片來自電影
I whispered in my mother's ear that this is so wrong and can't we just do something about it. My mother gave me angry glare and I didn't do anything but it made my heart cry.
我在媽媽耳邊低聲說：“這是非常嚴(yán)重的錯誤，我們不能做點什么嗎？”
媽媽生氣地瞪了我一眼，我什么也沒做，但我的心靈在哭泣。
You could have given a police complaint. Poor child. Can't believe in today's world such parents exist who marry off their daughter at this age.
你本可以向警方投訴的。可憐的孩子。真不敢相信在當(dāng)今世界上，還有這樣的父母，在這個年紀(jì)就把女兒嫁出去了。
I could have but for how many girls will I complain. There is a certain type of community in Gurgaon who are very rich and it is common in their culture to get married before 18. Even if I had complained, nothing would have made a difference because honestly money can buy any law and order these days.
我的確可以這么做，可我又能為多少女孩發(fā)起投訴。古爾岡市是一個非常富有的社區(qū)，在他們的文化中，18歲之前結(jié)婚是很常見的。
即使我投訴了，也不會有什么不同，因為老實說，當(dāng)今世界，金錢可以買到任何法律和秩序。
Dark side of our millennium city.
我們這座千年之城的黑暗面。
Don’t get me wrong…whatever the situation might be after you have complained to police…but you should have given a shot.
別誤會我的意思……不管你向警方投訴后的情況如何……但你至少應(yīng)該打響這一槍。
Ya give a shot and get a shot in head next day.. some community/people are dangerous.
你打響這一槍，第二天，你就會挨一槍……有些社區(qū)/人很危險。
I agree
我同意。
For all girls
為了那些女孩。
Would you do that?
你會那樣做嗎？
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girl you couldve save da life of at least one girl,what kind of pathetic argument is ‘for how many girls I will do police complaints’ youre just a coward,a girls life is ruined and you watched and did nothing,hope you are happy
你至少可以救下一個女孩的命，“我可以為多少女孩對警察進(jìn)行投訴？”，這是什么可悲的言論？？你只是個懦夫，那個女孩的生活被毀了，你就這樣看著，什么都沒有做，希望你還能快樂。
That's why I didn't give it upvote… we can use twitter handle, fb and so many social media platforms to complain if we can't go physically and complain.
這就是為什么我沒有給你點贊的原因……就算我們不能親自去投訴，我們也可以使用推特、臉書和其他許多社交媒體進(jìn)行控訴。
but atleast you could have tried
但你至少應(yīng)該試試。
Call child crisis helpline 1098 if you know them from your locality or the shop has CC TV. You might save someone's future!!!
如果你是當(dāng)?shù)厝耍阏J(rèn)識他們，或者商店里有閉路電視，請撥打兒童危機(jī)求助熱線1098。你可能會挽救某個人的未來?。?！
U can atleast change life of 1
你至少可以改變一個人的人生。
Exactly. You can't help all, but you can atleast create a difference in just one person's life. If everyone thought like that, nothing will change.
確實。你不能幫助所有的人，但你至少可以在一個人的生活中創(chuàng)造出不同。如果每個人都像你這樣想，一切都不會改變。
I saw a young girl at the airport and realized she was married to an old man. I wanted to intervene and reported it to my supervisor but was told they are legally married and I can't do anything. Hurts though, and this is the US. We have legal loopholes too
我曾經(jīng)在機(jī)場看到一個小女孩，我意識到她嫁給了一個老人。我想干預(yù)，我向管理者報告，但他們告訴我，他們是合法結(jié)婚的，我什么都做不了。雖然很傷人，但這就是美國。我們也有法律漏洞。
In India, Child marriage is banned. So that won't happen here. There would be some new bs. But do your job. Let the rest be handled by the authority
在印度，童婚是被禁止的。所以童婚不會在這里發(fā)生。有些人可能會說一些屁話。但做好你自己的事情。剩下的交給當(dāng)局處理。
It is not only illegal but also a very bad violation of child rights.
這不僅是非法的，而且是對兒童權(quán)利的嚴(yán)重侵犯。
I agree they should br protectived
我同意他們應(yīng)該受到保護(hù)。
Basically both you and that girl were in same position. Controlled and manipulated by “the great” Indian parents.
基本上，你和那個女孩其實處在同一個位置。被“偉大的”印度父母們控制和操縱著。
True, parents have their kids seeded with the thought that the parents are always right and even supposing that they're humans and can be wrong is seen as a disobedience on children's part. Children are not taught to develop their conscience rather they are taught what is right and what is wrong (no freedom to think)
The parents of the little girl was taught that it was a right thing to do, had they had their conscience they would've understood how wrong it is.
的確，父母給孩子灌輸了這樣一種思想，即父母總是對的。假設(shè)這是真的，但他們也是人，也會有錯誤的時候，他們只會認(rèn)為是孩子不服從。他們不教導(dǎo)孩子分辨是非的能力，反而只是告訴孩子，這是對的，那是錯的，不允許孩子自己思考。
小女孩的父母教導(dǎo)她，這是一件正確的事情，可以去做。如果小女孩有分辨是非的能力，他就會明白這是多么嚴(yán)重的錯誤。
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Look at her profile pic, do you think she needs awareness for this? she is pursuing nutrition that means she is well educated, well aware of everything, still she posted it here… and here, either the story is made up or if this is the situation then she is coward…
你看看樓主的個人資料，你真的認(rèn)為樓主沒有意識到這些嗎？她追求營養(yǎng)，這意味著她受過良好的教育，對一切都很了解，但她還是把它貼在了這里……要么故事是虛構(gòu)的，如果是真的，只能說明樓主是個懦夫……
U whispered in your mother's ear “ this is so wrong” and she gave an angry look,
U see where the problem is, our parents and our society teaches us to ignore these things
If u wanna make a change start it from your home.
Correct me if i got different meaning out of this story
你在你媽媽耳邊低聲說：“這是嚴(yán)重的錯誤。” 然后，你媽媽生氣的看了你一眼。
你知道問題出在哪里了嗎？我們的父母和社會教導(dǎo)我們忽略這些事情。
如果你想改變，就從家里開始吧。
如果是我把故事理解錯了，請糾正我。
Really bad story with heart break, is there any rules India to stop this type of crazy things, poor girl
真的是糟糕的故事，讓人心碎，印度有什么規(guī)則可以阻止這種瘋狂的事情嗎？可憐的女孩。
I think this story is made up, and if not this is illegal in India… so she could have complained to police…
我認(rèn)為這個故事是虛構(gòu)的，如果不是虛構(gòu)的，這在印度是非法的……所以她本可以向警方投訴……
I BELIEVE ITS TRUE.I MET A WOMAN FROM INDIA AGE 35 SHE HAS 2 GRANCHILDREN .HER DAUGHTER IS ONLY 15 AND HAS 2 KIDS ALREADY.
我相信這是真的。我遇到一位印度婦女，她35歲，已經(jīng)是2個孩子的外婆了。她的女兒只有15歲，已經(jīng)有兩個孩子了。
Wait a second… how is that even possible?
等等……這怎么可能呢？
BTW, the child in the picture is not getting married. This is “Kumari puja.”
順便說一句，照片中的孩子并沒有結(jié)婚。她叫Kumari puja 。
Lol she didn't use the pic of child she saw. Sge took this pic from internet obviously.-_-
哈哈，她沒有用她看到的孩子的照片。這張照片顯然是從網(wǎng)上找來的。
It's from a movie
這是電影里的。
It is illegal in India, you should have done something.
童婚在印度是違法的，你應(yīng)該做點什么。
And… you did nothing?
Besides the circumstances, In the age of Internet and smart phones, you couldn’t think of anything that you could do?
然后……你什么都沒做？
在這個互聯(lián)網(wǎng)和智能手機(jī)的時代，你想不出你能做點什么？
If you really felt for her, then you should have called police and tried to contact child support organisations. You just cried for the moment but she will cry for all her life.
如果你真的很同情她，那么你應(yīng)該報警，并嘗試聯(lián)系兒童支持組織。你只是掉了幾滴眼淚，但她會哭一輩子。
If this answer was not written just for upvotes then as a responsible and aware citizen of this country, it is your duty to call the police and report this.
如果這個答案不僅僅是為了獲得點贊，那么作為一個負(fù)責(zé)任、有清醒意識的國家公民，你有責(zé)任報警并報告此事。
It is even more horrible when old men marry girl kids like in many mslim communities. Just heart wrenching.
更可怕的是，在很多穆斯林社區(qū)都是這樣，老年人娶了小女孩。只能痛心。
This thing doesn't happen now in huge numbers…. And not just Musli..., I've seen even Hindu men marrying young girl… like I had a friend who was 13… she was being married to 40 years old man.. after that no one saw… In her family, every one marries girl before 15.. I don't know the current scenario of that family.
這種事情現(xiàn)在不會大量發(fā)生……不止是穆斯林，我也見過印度教的男人娶年輕小女孩……就像我有一個13歲的朋友……她嫁給了一個40歲的男人……在那之后，沒有人再見過她……在她的家庭中，每個人都和小于15歲的小女孩結(jié)婚……我不知道那個家庭目前的情況。
High caste people?
Usually the highest caste people have highest education level in India. Very rare cases where they do child marriage.
Usually poor low caste people indulge in this.
Do you mind telling which caste? Because this seems made up and honestly very bigoted, considering your religion has codified personal laws which promote Child marriage
高種姓的人？
通常，印度最高種姓的人受教育程度最高。他們童婚的情況非常罕見。
通常是貧窮的低種姓的人沉溺于此。
你介意告訴我，她是哪個種姓嗎？因為這似乎是捏造的，而且說實話非常偏執(zhí)，尤其是考慮到你的宗教已經(jīng)編纂了促進(jìn)童婚的屬人法。
I don't know her caste as it's been too long. I met her in school and that time who knew caste and all…. But she wasn't from higher caste that I know… her family was very poor…. Her native place was somewhere in West Bengal as she used to speak bangla…. I'm trying to find her contact since I got my own phone but nowhere to be found…. But I believe it that the reason was more of psycho family than the caste or religion… as bengali girls doesn't usually get married before completing education….
我不知道她的種姓，我是在學(xué)校里認(rèn)識她的，那個時候，誰會去問種姓……但據(jù)我所知，她不是來自更高的種姓……她的家庭非常貧窮……她的家鄉(xiāng)是西孟加拉邦的某個地方，因為她過去常說孟加拉語……自從我有了自己的手機(jī)，我就嘗試去尋找她的聯(lián)系方式，但找不到……但我相信更多原因是家庭原因，而不是種姓或宗教……因為孟加拉女孩通常不會在完成教育之前結(jié)婚……
Islam is not the problem. India hindu India is the capital of rape and gang rape and honestly it is disgusting.. Any 40 years old man marrying a child is doing it for sex regardless his religion. In the USA some states have the legal marriage age under 18 with the consent of one parent. In fact many states you will be surprised. dowery is given to the female by the male while in hindu it is the opposite the girl have to pay to get married. you might need to revisit a lot of your ideas.
伊斯蘭教不是問題所在。印度教讓印度成為強(qiáng)奸和輪奸之都。老實說，這太惡心了……任何一個40歲的男人結(jié)婚都是為了性，不管他的宗教信仰如何。
在美國，在某些州，只要一方的父母同意，法定結(jié)婚年齡可以在18歲以下。事實上，有許多州都對此感到驚訝。嫁妝是由男性給女性的，而在印度則相反，女孩必須付錢才能結(jié)婚。你可能需要重新審視你的很多想法。
Islam is the main problem…
伊斯蘭教才是主要問題……
Fake story.
假故事。
Everything bad about India is always fake innit?
印度的一切壞事都是假的，是這樣嗎？
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Was it a real marriage? I have heard that in many traditional countries there is a wedding and the child goes to live with her parents-in-law and their son. The marriage is consummated when she is an adult.
是事實婚姻嗎？我聽說，在許多傳統(tǒng)國家，他們會舉辦婚禮，小女孩和公婆以及他們的兒子住在一起。當(dāng)她成年后，婚姻才完成。
This is illegal
這是違法的。
Child marriage should stop.
童婚應(yīng)該停止。
Why they give birth to the girl at first place if they think she is just born to get married?
如果他們認(rèn)為女孩生來就是為了結(jié)婚，為什么他們一開始要生下她？
It’s illegal to have a child married, this should definitely be reported to the cops!
和一個孩子結(jié)婚是違法的，一定要報警！
I don't understand how parents can have a heart of marrying off such small kids? They should be playing out with other kids or taking a stroll with father for chocolates. These little kids aren't prepared mentally, sexually, physically or emotionally for getting married.
我不明白，父母怎么忍心把這么小的孩子嫁出去？他們應(yīng)該和其他孩子一起玩耍，或者和爸爸一起散步吃巧克力。這些孩子在心理、性、身體或情感上，都沒有為結(jié)婚做好準(zhǔn)備。
You have to file a police complaint against it. I can’t believe that parents would do this to their daughter in today’s world, and if they did, a complaint NEEDS to be filed against them. The poor girl might also be a victim of human trafficking and actions have to be taken against this so please don’t sit quietly. Every life matters.
你必須向警方投訴。
我不敢相信在當(dāng)今世界，父母會對他們的女兒做這樣的事情，如果他們這樣做了，就需要投訴他們。那個可憐的女孩，也可能是人口販買的受害者，必須對此采取行動，所以請不要安靜地坐著。每個生命都很重要。
But can you blame the parents when you have wolfs all around and feel so helpless? No Government or organisation comes to your support. You got to face it all alone.
但是，當(dāng)你周圍都是狼，感到如此無助時，你能責(zé)怪父母嗎？沒有任何政府或組織支持你。你必須獨自面對這一切。
The parents can very well be blamed.
父母就應(yīng)該被指責(zé)。
Stolen childhood it is there in india ver sad…it is like a sexual abuse to children in age of learning and happiness it is like darkness then why say iraq syria it is in India lack of education n nk fear of laws weak n corruption…if ppl would take action it can be hope..
童年被偷走了，在印度是多么可悲……本應(yīng)該處于學(xué)習(xí)和幸福年齡的兒童，遭到了性虐待，這就是罪惡。
話說回來，為什么要說伊拉克、敘利亞、印度，缺乏教育、害怕法律、軟弱腐敗……如果人民采取行動，那就有希望……
hich fucking state is this
這tmd發(fā)生在哪個州？
Anyone can make a call to 1098 to report any crime related to a child in India.
任何人都可以撥打1098舉報任何與印度兒童有關(guān)的犯罪。
certainly shocked with this ill-treatment, I don’t think we have any right to spoil any girl’s career through marrying her during her teenage days. When did this incident happen? 2021??? or quite a old one?
我對這種虐待感到震驚。我認(rèn)為，我們無權(quán)在任何女孩十幾歲的時候娶了她，這會毀了她所有的人生經(jīng)歷和事業(yè)。
這件事是什么時候發(fā)生的？2021年？？？還是更早以前？
you know what? some people
still live in 1900s
你知道嗎？有些人仍然生活在20世紀(jì)。
And the lady came out and stated to you that she was the mother in-law? You automatically knew the kids age? Or these were just assumptions on your part that your sharing to provoke outrage?
是哪位女士對你說，她是她的婆婆？你怎么知道孩子的年齡的？或者，這一切都只是你的假設(shè)？你的分享只是為了激起憤怒？
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Tf you don't need to ask the toddler age. You can just tell it by looks if someone is a child.
你不需要問孩子的年齡。你可以通過外表來判斷某人是否是個孩子。
Let's promise that next time we see something like this we will take the smallest step possible. Atleast it might impact one person's life
讓我們做出承諾，如果我們下次看到這樣的事情，我們將采取哪怕最小的行動。至少這可能會影響到一個人的生活。
The only way to stop these atrocities from happening is to educate men in your country not to accept brides under the age if 18 and organise protests to change the law raising the legal age of consent for sex and forbidding child marriages. Being appalled and walking away fors not change anything.
阻止這些暴行發(fā)生的唯一方法，是教育貴國男性，不要接受18歲以下的新娘，并組織抗議活動，要求修改法律，提高性行為的法定同意年齡，禁止童婚。
震驚和走開，并不能改變?nèi)魏问虑椤?/b>
On the year of 1929 anti child marriage law passed in india but still after 80 90 years still child marriage is active like this law violation lots other laws are there in india which was regulated passed quite a long time before to stop all those nonsense actives rituals custom etc in india but still active mostly in those back ward unsofisticated uneducated uncultured perverted mass in india, and government administration are not bothered to stop those activities only for vote bank.
1929年，印度通過了《反童婚法》，但在80、90年后，童婚仍然活躍，這種違法行為非常多。
印度還有許多其他法律，這些法律在很久以前就通過了，目的就是為了阻止印度存在的那些荒謬愚蠢的活動、習(xí)俗、儀式等，但這些事情仍然活躍在那些落后的、未受過教育的地方。
為了他們的票倉，政府行政部門也不愿意停止這些活動。
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bro that’s illegal, you should’ve called the cops immediately!
兄弟，這是違法的，你應(yīng)該立即報警！
I don't believe this story
我不相信這個故事。
What the heck? Do these things still exist?? Pathetic.
搞什么鬼？這些東西居然還存在？？令人同情。
Your walking out of the situation was totally wrong, you should have taken a stand & reported it to the local police. A major chunk of our population do not report such crimes, even rape but prefer to remain silent. This is not correct, such crimes should be reported without giving a thought whether the police will take action or not. If you had reported it, they would have had to file an FIR & start investigations. But you have allowed a girl to live a life without knowing what the future holds for her, that too against her choice.
你完全錯了，你應(yīng)該表明立場，并向當(dāng)?shù)鼐綀蟾妗?br /> 我們的大部分人口不報告此類犯罪，即使是強(qiáng)奸，他們更喜歡保持沉默。
這是不對的，應(yīng)該舉報此類犯罪，而不考慮警方是否會采取行動。如果你報告了，他們就不得不立案，并開始調(diào)查。但你讓一個小女孩過著不知道未來會如何的生活，這種生活違背了她的選擇。
Call 1098 toll free no, and register a complain.
撥打1098免費電話，并進(jìn)行報案登記。
I have a cousin . When she was 15-16 yr old her parents force her to get married. First people from our family opposes them but they didn't agree. Then what can anyone do when their parents want it. I mean anyone could have filed police case but i don't know why no one done it. I was 13 at that time. My momz dad and me felt very bad for her but no one protest against them. She is not my real cousin but still i feel sad.
我有一個堂姐。在她15-16歲時，她的父母強(qiáng)迫她結(jié)婚。我們家的人，是第一批反對的，但她的父母并不同意我們的反對。
所以，如果父母堅持這么做，其他人還能怎么辦？我的意思是，任何人都可以替他們報警，但為什么沒有人這么做呢？
當(dāng)時我13歲。我的爸爸媽媽和我為她感到非常難過，但沒有人抗議她的父母。
她不是我的親堂姐，但是我仍然感到非常難過。
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Her parents are such jerk.
她的父母真是個混蛋。
I can understand what you have had felt at that time.But actually we can't help…even we ourselves are trapped in one of these kind of situations and what we can do is nothing.
I don't know why world is so cruel for us girls…I don't know what happens to our mothers even that they also start supporting what's wrong.
I am not able to express myselfbut I just want to say kuch bhi change nahi ho Raha bohot sari ladkiyo ke liye aaj bhi sab kuch vaisa hi hai aur hum chah kar bhi abhi kuch nahi kar sakte
Agar kuch kar sakte hain to khud ko unbiased rakh sakte hain aur apni aur apni aane wali generation ki ladkiyo ko support kar sakte hain unlike our mothers who just ignore every wrong thing done to girls but they pay special attention to every minute thing which a girl has done wrong….matlab had hoti hai
我能理解你當(dāng)時的感受。但實際上我們無能為力……甚至我們自己也會陷入這種情況，我們無能為力。
我不知道為什么這個世界對我們這些女孩如此殘酷……我不知道我們的母親身上到底發(fā)生了什么，就算是她們，居然也支持這種錯誤的事情。
我無法表達(dá)我自己的感受。但我只想說：（譯注：這里開始變成英文和其他語言夾雜，看不懂，能懂多少懂多少吧，一起猜）
如果我們想改變……拍照……愚蠢的……不偏不倚……一代……支持……不要像我們母親那樣，她們忽視對女孩做的每一件錯事，但她們特別關(guān)注女孩做錯的每一分鐘……